I just Googled “Chloe Grace Moretz butthole” so that’s where I am today.
Why?
It’s Monday and I’m in New York City!
Had a great weekend. Met Evelyn’s first plant (and her new roomie).
Evie’s first cannabis plant! #cannabis #growing
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Onto the links!
Tucker on Trumpism is amazing. “In the 18th century, there is a trade theory called mercantilism that posited something similar: ship the goods out and keep the money in. It builds up industrial cartels that live at the expense of the consumer. In the 19th century, this penchant for industrial protectionism and mercantilism became guild socialism, which mutated later into fascism and then into Nazism. You can read Mises to find out more on how this works.”
Will Wilksinson on who rigs the system and how is great.
Take me now, Henry Rollins:
“Now that you can watch people die on Facebook, your evaluation of the facts and the sheer amount of information you want to deal with is up to you. But you can no longer say you don’t know what’s going on.
“For the last week, I have heard politicians use a phrase that nauseates me whenever I hear anyone say it. The need to ‘come together.’ To that I say, ‘You first, motherfucker.’”
I say this with a little self-awareness but zero irony, there’s nothing sexier on a white man than some fucking wokeness.
Look, I’m not saying everyone needs to try non-monogamy. But it just blows my mind to remember that not everyone knows the basics of how non-monogamy works. I do think that if you’re going to opine on it, you should know the broad strokes. I appreciate Monique (and her husband) going out there and educating folks on how this works (via Matt Powers).
Watch that video. I’m crying. Monique just summed up and slammed down so much misogyny in a few words.
Non-monogamy is really hard. Over the past two weeks or so I’ve had to work through some new, challenging experiences. I’ve been learning to ask for what I need patiently and without anger (not there yet) and overcome jealousy (it’s happening slowly). It’s also difficult to separate anger at not getting my needs met with jealousy when I feel like others are getting what I want and I’m not. At the end of the day, whether it’s another woman (or man) or a hobby that’s getting the time, energy, and attention I want to go to me isn’t very important. Though society has taught us that it’s some special betrayal when it’s another person and sex is involved.
While the past two weeks or so have been extremely challenging, the past few days have been extremely rewarding. I’m having some of the best sex of my life 😀 I’m growing with my love, letting him see the parts of me that I’m ashamed of, the stuff I need to work on. He’s letting me see himself too, his vulnerability. I feel so loved and connected right now. I feel a more secure attachment than I’m used to. I feel more compersive than ever. It’s been really hard for us both but I’m so grateful to be allowed to be me and I’m working really hard on fully supporting him going after getting everything he could possibly want out of non-monogamy and life generally.
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